k heres my little point of view
iv NEVER startin seein a guy to get into his wallet,,i see through that an find the person inside,,theres more to life than worryin about money etc,,at the end of the day money dont bring ya happiness (helps but dont in the long run)..an as for sleepin with older guys..iv slept with one,,the rest were slightly younger ,,,i dont see that bein an issue either,,love and commitment is wat is needed for a relationship to work