Help with Life Crisis...

[Trichocereus Panza]

i know what you mean man, that u cant control your mind at the moment. sometimes thats just the way it is and theres not much anyone can do.

just have to ride it out, believe me it will pass. try some meditation if youre into that.

[justinsane]

im somewhat positive in knowing my girl wants what she cant have. im just going to stay busy

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fall seven times, stand up eight

[Adolf Smittler]

i know how you feel, i used to feel like that all the time (though not due to the same things). eventually i got fed up with feeling sorry for myself and just said "fuck it". i'm sure a lot of people have done this but i stuck with it. it may seem difficult to harness your emotions at first but just keep at it. don't place too much importance on things that are only temporary, like your job or your relationship. try to avoid planning ahead if you don't need to, it sucks when your plans fall through. try to be happy just for the sake of being happy, and take pride in who you are. try to do the right thing at all times and you'll find you're happy knowing you're a good person. getting upset with people who give you shit isn't the way to go either, usually if they don't care enough about you to be such a dick then it's not worth getting angry over. don't get angry when people misunderstand you and get angry, that leads nowhere; explain yourself calmly and try to get on everybody's good side. and masturbate all the time (seriously, getting into it is the best stress relief i've ever had, though these days it takes A LOT to stress me out). and NEVER say "this just won't work for me". trust me, the only time it doesn't work is when you aren't trying or when you give up. find a hobby, too. doing something you love for hours on end is great for forgetting your problem. be more outgoing. let people know what you're about and what you're into. if people aren't being your friend, it could be because you aren't trying. laugh as often as possible (it really is contagious). sorry that none of this will actually fix your problem, but make it a lot less of a problem. i wish you well, and hope you can find the silver lining in all this.

[justinsane]

just wanna thank everyone whos contributed in helping. it means alot, thanks

[Adolf Smittler]

just wanna thank everyone whos contributed in helping. it means alot, thanks

what'd you expect from a bunch of lovable stoners like us?

[rollinKansas]

hey everyone. this is a thread asking for help..

im sure many if not all of you have experienced a time when everything is gone, and you have nothing, and no one to turn to.

My girlfriend of 2 years whom i love very very much, broke up with me because A.) shes interested in other guys, and B.) because my drug use was affecting our relationship.

on top of that, my job that i had which paid very well with great work said that they ran out of work for me to do so April 15th is my last day.

all my friends went to college out of state and i go to a Technical College where everyone is a lot older than i am so i dont make friends.

im not suicidal or anything. im just very very down and feeling hopeless.

does anyone have any suggestions on a pick-me-up?

im contemplating going away to a different state college and sort of starting over. going to the dorms to meet new people and stuff.. but im not too crazy about the idea.. just somewhat of an option i brewed up..

listen youre odviously young so u have your whole life ahead of you, and the life u have now could easily be altered so cheer up. YOU CAN FIND A NEW GIRLFRIEND AND BETTER. she left u for stupid shit so dont worry about her. you are willing to work, so you will find a job, and if you want to make friends all you have to do is try. dont be shy and be yourself bc making friends is just as easy as finding a girlfriend. just be friendly you honestly have nothing to loose if ppl dont like u! YOUR LIFE ISNT BAD AT ALL YOUR JUST LOOKING ON THE DOWNSIDE OF EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!imp:

[justinsane]

heres the situation now, she says she still loves me, but is afraid of getting hurt. so shes treating me like shit. shes like walking all over me but im afraid to bitch at her for it because she'll say,

look, your being an ass again!

what does a guy do?

[chris40]

Load up a brief case with Acid, Dro and cheez-its and walk down the nearest highway untill you find someplace you want to be.