if ure begining a job soon, and planning on moving out, then why even bother? even if it doesn't cause any hassle, why take the risk of hassle when u cud just keep smokin in secret? jus silence the naggin voice in the back of ure head for a few months until u have ure own place, then tell her if its pissin u off that much. Unless the only reason ure leavin is cuz u can't smoke weed in the house, and for that try and secure a flat or apartment, and tell her then. She flips, you leave, she accepts you stay