loneliness-good or bad

[friendowl]

i am trying to figure out the best way to remain happy
is it better to be alone and live the way you choose.
or
is it better to have a partner to share the moments with.

its tricky cuz when your with someone you feel more lonlely than when your alone.

ive been in a relationship going on five years and i dont really enjoy myself as mucjh as i do when im alone.

do any of you feel trapped between feelings like me or what

friendowl Reviewed by friendowl on 02-22-2006. loneliness-good or bad i am trying to figure out the best way to remain happy is it better to be alone and live the way you choose. or is it better to have a partner to share the moments with. its tricky cuz when your with someone you feel more lonlely than when your alone. ive been in a relationship going on five years and i dont really enjoy myself as mucjh as i do when im alone. do any of you feel trapped between feelings like me or what Rating: 5

[eddievanzant]

People sometimes think they only have two choices. You could have an open marriage... that might be cool.

[Az.]

maybe take a weekend away or somthing?
you know....

Getting away from people you see all the time is a good thing....for you and for them.

Everyone needs some alone time

[paperlunatic]

hehe, swingers!

[friendowl]

eddie thats gotta be the stupidest shit i hears all day.
would you want the mother or father of your kids to come home
and kiss you or your kids after fucking and sucking someone else.
just kiss and say goodbye but that open marriage shit is for
people who just dont want to be alone.better to have a piece than none.
fuck that not me i want the whole pie

[eddievanzant]

Hahahaha I didn't know you had kids. Listen to Blink 182: Stay Together For The Kids; or you could listen to Propaghandi: Stick that fucking flag up your ass you fucking son of a bitch!... I guess that's irrelevant.

[activedenial]

The last girlfriend I had made me feel like I had a second mom, always wanting to know where I was and who I hung out with. I am done right now with long relationships. Straight fuck'n from here on out with no strings:thumbsup:

[Shelbay]

i am trying to figure out the best way to remain happy
is it better to be alone and live the way you choose.
or
is it better to have a partner to share the moments with.

its tricky cuz when your with someone you feel more lonlely than when your alone.

ive been in a relationship going on five years and i dont really enjoy myself as mucjh as i do when im alone.

do any of you feel trapped between feelings like me or what

I used to be like that..what worked for me ( a blessing really) when I met the man I am married 2 now..it worked because of the fact that he is gone alot with his work but I still have him..make sense? We don't actually spend much time together (phone every day and night) but after being apart like 2 weeks when he does come home? The best! And it works because of the TRUST. Hope this made sense because I am totally "sober"...but you sounded sincere in your question. Being in a relationship and being lonely is not a good thing is it?

[friendowl]

yeah i stay for my lil ones
i love the mom too as much as i can
being in a relationship is like being smothered.
sometimes i like it sometimes i dont.
i wont cheat cuz that only fucks me up in the long run.
so hard being a good man in a bad relationship

[activedenial]

Cheating is ok in my book, as long as you don't tell. I always think that they cheat anyways, so why don't I? As long as you keep the girls that you fuck seperate from the circle of friends that your girl has it's all good.imp: