Quote Originally Posted by friendowl
i am trying to figure out the best way to remain happy
is it better to be alone and live the way you choose.
or
is it better to have a partner to share the moments with.

its tricky cuz when your with someone you feel more lonlely than when your alone.

ive been in a relationship going on five years and i dont really enjoy myself as mucjh as i do when im alone.

do any of you feel trapped between feelings like me or what
I used to be like that..what worked for me ( a blessing really) when I met the man I am married 2 now..it worked because of the fact that he is gone alot with his work but I still have him..make sense? We don't actually spend much time together (phone every day and night) but after being apart like 2 weeks when he does come home? The best! And it works because of the TRUST. Hope this made sense because I am totally "sober"...but you sounded sincere in your question. Being in a relationship and being lonely is not a good thing is it?