k guy, your on a drug forum so im pretty sure ur not against doing drugs. k dont be doin this everytime you go out with her do this just at first. #1 dont smoke weed, because if your like me and get nervous which u said u did, weed will only make you more nervous and even worst you will think almost every reaction she has to you is against you. k now what you should take. take like a low dose of oxys or codein or alcohol or some other depressant these will help you relax, be in a better place and be yourself. DO NOT take a stimulant these will make even more anxiety and nevousness. and dont tell her you took anything even if shes cool with drugs it just sends a bad message. do this till your comfortable on your own and dont get addicted.

this will work but only if you want it to so good luck