approvals and disaprovals

[beachguy in thongs]

:smokin:

That's pretty closed minded... Maybe their just nervous...

Dude just "Be yourself"

It's, sort of, the truth. Unless they're young and shy.

Stay off my rink, skink.

I'm gonna have a blue sweater running through my mind everytime I see, either, a lizard or any word that rhymes with skink.

[Zinnia]

Alright guys well it boils down to my nervousness now, if i do get closer to her and around her, im really nervous like i can feel it in my stomach. i try to act cool and be my self but i cant keep the feelings down. i think its because that when i think if i get into a relationship with her and start sexn, well i had a post earlier about me and having testicular cancer, and i only have 1 testical, im nervous about her reaction to that mostly.

Nervousness is perfectly natural and normal.

As far as the other, I don't think it will matter much if she is attracted to you..

[Skink]

:smokin:

It's, sort of, the truth. Unless they're young and shy.

Stay off my rink, skink.

I'm gonna have a blue sweater running through my mind everytime I see, either, a lizard or any word that rhymes with skink.

I don't know what that meant,but it sounded childish...

[beachguy in thongs]

I don't know what that meant,but it sounded childish...

Oh, c'mon. You make me feel like a little boy because I have that image of that sexy iguana in my head.

[Wesley Pipes]

Alright guys well it boils down to my nervousness now, if i do get closer to her and around her, im really nervous like i can feel it in my stomach. i try to act cool and be my self but i cant keep the feelings down. i think its because that when i think if i get into a relationship with her and start sexn, well i had a post earlier about me and having testicular cancer, and i only have 1 testical, im nervous about her reaction to that mostly.

dont stress dude, just chill, and it dont matter bout that, aslong as everything is in workin order i doubt she will mind

peace

[JohnnyCutCorners]

hey guys thanks for all of your kind remarks and showing respect in such a manner.

anyway i hung out iwth her tonight and i still felt nervous, but do you think it could be that im still a virgin and she might not be?

[KeanBean]

i cant take di shit no mo, im out

[Jennifer K]

Nervousness is perfectly natural and normal.

As far as the other, I don't think it will matter much if she is attracted to you..

Could not have said it better myself. I dated a fellow with only one testie and I could not have cared less. :stoned:

[JohnnyCutCorners]

thanks for your replies everyone.

although I do feel the need to address 1 more thing if you all dont mind helping me.

My neverousness is down and up, almost like a rollercoaster. I am 16 years old now as it stands and yes I am a youngin but it dont stop me from understanding the same as you guys. But what Im tring to get to, is that from the ages 13 - 15 i was isolated by my computer and I feel like a nerd, but im not a nerd. I have nothing to talk about, my buddys n all talk bout cars, trucks, skidoos, etc that kind of shit and the girls well they talk about alot of stuff. the only problem is , when my friends are talkn bout the cars and shit around the girls, i wanna jump into that conversation but I dont know jack shit on cars and non of my buds will teach me, maybe wen summer comes round but Im stuck with NOTHING.

You guys are telling me to 'be my self' I would really love to be my self but do you think Im confused because Im still to find out who I am.

[beachguy in thongs]

That's when you find the girl who's not into the other things those guys are talking about. If they're all interested in those guys, change the subject.