Quote Originally Posted by drinksmokesleep
I dont agree Wes

Well i have loads of female freinds and yeah sometime it is a bit rough when they go on about there b/f's and such........but they are there for you as well and they are always a little better at talking bout emotions than most blokes.........even with those that weren't interested i me/or iwwas interested in were succesful friendships. I fact i would go so far as to say most of my closest freinds have been women.......

Once you realise that when it comes down to it there is not much of a diff and start treating women as the human beings they are then you will able to be freinds. Maybe even more

But if you cant handle how you feel towards stay away from her and your not headstrong/mature enough to deal with it......you'll just hurt yourself.

And GS thats just BS everybody is different

Women usualy(so they have told me)like to be talked just as human beings not just potential love/lust objects
i hear ya on this drink man, i totally get your point, but having experienced this myself as well, i agree with u on most points except one, if u spend a lot of time around someone u may start to develop "more than friendship" feelings, this (i know) cannot be helped, and u can either choose to tell her how u feel and know for sure if anything will ever happen, or u can suffer in silence, im not saying u should be friends with a girl first just so u can try it on l8er, quite the opposite infact, but sometimes u can't help how you feel towards someone, love can grow with time, and seeing her everyday knowing that she wont return those feelings can hurt.

Peace:thumbsup: