Quote Originally Posted by Weeden
Right? Sex is never as satisfying if it is with someone you don't know and love. There is a mental connecting to sex that you don't get if it is with someone you don't know. I mean, once yer an old man, you won't give a damn about how women you've slept with. You'll care if there is someone next to you who you've known and loved for 50+ years. Not to mention, its not like there are any friggen guidelines that are going to work for ALL women. Different women look for different things. You just have to find the woman who wants what you are offering.

Tsch, do you consider this person as a friend or something more? I'm talking from only YOUR perspective, not both of you. If you see her as something more than a friend, and she only sees you as a friend, the best thing you can do for her is be there for her. She will (eventually) dump that guy. The best way to get to someone who is currently in a relationship is to be their friend. I suppose you could see this as getting your foot inside the door. If you try to stop their relationship, she will get angry at you.

However, if, after she is single again, she seems to have no interest in you as being more than a friend, yer fucked. This is only if you know she is still interested in a relationship. She will probably be hurt/pissed off at guys in general, so you might have you wait a little longer there too.

It comes down to whether or not you want to wait for her. you could remain friends with her and begin to look for others. If you find someone else you'd want to be with more than her, then go for that person. Otherwise, you'll have to wait.
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