your parents are just pulling the old "we want our kids to have a better life than we did" thing. of course they're gonna get mad and tell you not to tote, they're parents, they can't just be like, let's all smoke up as a family, lol

in my opinion, and really you should come up with your own, i think you might want to wait until youre like 17 or 18. totin that young will probably have some negative effects on you, whether it be physical or emotional, whatev. on the other hand, if you can't feel good without totin at 13, you may have some other issues you need to work out...