this is all very simple to explain... we have a cave man's brain living in a modern society our brain wasn't deisgned for all of this stress... think about it, people have road rage because unconciously our brain doesn't understand why the person infront of us won't do what we think they should. the only way to overcome this is to realize that control is an illusion and we have no control so just sit back relax and let the good time roll, and let the chips fall where they may