I didn't read all of these because I am sure I have heard both sides. I did read the first few, and was pleasantly suprised

I personally am not gay. But I have an uncle who is. He was a virgin for a very long time because he didn't want to be a sinner. He also knew he was gay when he was 5. He is now open, and we all love him VERY much.

I do know that HE did not choose this. It is just the way it is. He tried damn hard to fit in, at the loss of tons of self esteem, and many unhappy years that didn't have to be unhappy. He even battled drug addictions because he was do depressed. I do believe that some people want attention, and can "choose" to be gay to get it. But I am not talking about them, cause they are doing ANYTHING to get attention, not just "being" gay.

I think that it is not up to anyone person to judge. If you don't like it, don't think about it. But no person is worthy of judging another persons worthyness. If that makes sense.

Some would actually disown family over this crap. I try to never ever ingage in negativity to the degree of hate. I know that I would never let something like who a person is attracted to drive me away from family, that is for damn sure. And if my son is gay? Then he is gay, and hopefully really good with colors so he can help me shop I hope he isn't, so he can have a bunch of little kids who look and act just like him!! But life is what it is.

I have always had big hands. I have always hated them, and wanted smaller hands. But there are things about this life, this body, whatever that can't be changed. These things have to be accepted, because it is what it is.

Eva