Been married now for 6 years. Believe me we have had a few disagrements but not once had a fight. Both of us in brevios relationships did the fighting and screaming and what it get us nothing. We eventualy moved on. When the Wife and I first started to see each other I told her of the past and how did not want to go down that road again. When we have a disagrement we discuse it and in end we might not agree but at least understand. One will win this round but is not a relationship a thing of comprimises. Win some loose some. I end we show and treat each other with respect. Can not do that by screeming at each other. Mind you been a few times we had to give each other space to cool things down. lol. And it is fun after it all over.