Quote Originally Posted by STDzRus
It's actually more complicated than that.

You are probably against EVERYTHING I am about to say.

We are not together. We have never really been together. I had unprotected sex with her, I only knew her for 3 weeks and yes..we fucked on the first date. I didn't find out she was pregnant until two days after we broke up, she has severe mental issues and problems I just don't want in my life anymore. (drug problems and family issues) I tried working it out but we are just friends.

We aren't very lucky haha, Minors should never have babies. but we aren't going to leave this behind, stepping up and taking responsibility for our actions is what we have to do. I am still trying to convince her of adoption SIMPLY because financially neither of us are ready, and I can tell MENTALLY she is far from ready, as am I, but my views are better than hers.

She thinks heaven will be handed to us in a handbasket.
Im not against you I just believe every child conceived is a blessing...theres a reason..so many of us can't have children and it's difficult to try and understand how any child could be considered a mistake. Not judging anyone but make sure you get a DNA test okay...One of my brothers paid on a child for 9 years that he found out last year was not even his daughter....can you believe he STILLS support her and lets her believe that he is her daddy? Oh well...thats him. Sorry about her having mental issues..maybe intervention and medication?