Quote Originally Posted by Shelbay
haha...I wondered about your name lol. That is so amazing! You guys are blessed! Make sure you let us know when he/she? makes their arrival okay? k. I have twin grandbabies...boy and girl...they are my loves but I am glad to be able to hand them back to momma and daddy. You and your lady are so lucky!:thumbsup:
It's actually more complicated than that.

You are probably against EVERYTHING I am about to say.

We are not together. We have never really been together. I had unprotected sex with her, I only knew her for 3 weeks and yes..we fucked on the first date. I didn't find out she was pregnant until two days after we broke up, she has severe mental issues and problems I just don't want in my life anymore. (drug problems and family issues) I tried working it out but we are just friends.

We aren't very lucky haha, Minors should never have babies. but we aren't going to leave this behind, stepping up and taking responsibility for our actions is what we have to do. I am still trying to convince her of adoption SIMPLY because financially neither of us are ready, and I can tell MENTALLY she is far from ready, as am I, but my views are better than hers.

She thinks heaven will be handed to us in a handbasket.