Abortion. Justified or not?

[STDzRus]

I agree with that! Some of you even pay child support for kids that you KNOW are not yours but your still court ordered to do it....man..women can be some evil B*****s!

Couldn't agree with you more!

[bonsaiguy]

Shelbay, I agree with Bizzle in the sense that most young girls do not intentionally use abortion as a form of BC. A good number of abortions are performed on middle, upper middle, or upper class women who are either not interested in becoming mothers or have gotten themselves in to a position that they don't want their hubbys to know about. From what I've read and seen, most of these younger girls end up getting abortions because they didn't think first and use it as a last act of desperation. Abortion has sadly become a huge generator of income for the clinics and doctors that perform.
But Bizzle, you are dead wrong that there are so many "difficulties" with giving babies up for adoption. There are literally tens of thousands of couples who wouldl love to adopt a baby and there are a lot of services, both public and private (mostly through religious agencies, catholic, protestant, jewish etc) that will help and support women through the pre natal period and well beyond with monetary, housing, educational and adoption services that don't cost a dime for the women who they service.

Shelbay, you were a bit out of line in your response to Bizzle especially labeling her a slut. I think you owe her an apology.

[STDzRus]

Shelbay, you were a bit out of line in your response to Bizzle especially labeling her a slut. I think you owe her an apology.

I second that. Can't we ever just share our opinions without throwing deragotary and defaming terms around?

[bonsaiguy]

And on the issue of the men being involved, by all means yes. That unborn child is the product of two sets of chromosomes and it didn't get there by some immaculate conception. And if the girl is a minor, the parents should also be involved in any deciscion that involves a surgical procedure on their child. Yes, there are and should be exceptions to that since many parents are not worth a shit in a rainbarrel.

[bonsaiguy]

I second that. Can't we ever just share our opinions without throwing deragotary and defaming terms around?

We should be able to but this is one of the most hot button issues one can think of.

[Shelbay]

You're talking shit when in truth...you have alot of your stuff twisted Shelbay.

Thats your opinion...but its not twisted imo. If you guys want some articles posted concerning this I can but can you then refute me with your facts if I am talking shit...deal? Women get pregnant..don't want the baby..and then kill it. If not ready for resposibilities use BIRTH CONTROL. Out of all the millions of abortions each year you honestly believe they were all accidents? NO the majority because they are to lazy and know all to just take a pill a day and buy condoms..heck they are free some place! Not all but most use abortion over and over...and that is birth control to me..the way I look at. Oh and lets not forget the glorious morning after pill..thats available so why wait until your months along and then kill the baby?

[bonsaiguy]

Thats your opinion...but its not twisted imo. If you guys want some articles posted concerning this I can but can you then refute me with your facts if I am talking shit...deal? Women get pregnant..don't want the baby..and then kill it. If not ready for resposibilities use BIRTH CONTROL. Out of all the millions of abortions each year you honestly believe they were all accidents? NO the majority because they are to lazy and know all to just take a pill a day and buy condoms..heck they are free some place! Not all but most use abortion over and over...and that is birth control to me..the way I look at. Oh and lets not forget the glorious morning after pill..thats available so why wait until your months along and then kill the baby?

You'll get no argument from me on most of what you just said. In this day and age there is little or no excuse for an accidental pregnancy.
And I still think you owe Bizzle an apology for calling her a slut.

[STDzRus]

Thats your opinion...but its not twisted imo. If you guys want some articles posted concerning this I can but can you then refute me with your facts if I am talking shit...deal? Women get pregnant..don't want the baby..and then kill it. If not ready for resposibilities use BIRTH CONTROL. Out of all the millions of abortions each year you honestly believe they were all accidents? NO the majority because they are to lazy and know all to just take a pill a day and buy condoms..heck they are free some place! Not all but most use abortion over and over...and that is birth control to me..the way I look at. Oh and lets not forget the glorious morning after pill..thats available so why wait until your months along and then kill the baby?

They use it over and over again because ABORTIONS increase chance for birth failure later on. Also, it cannot be used so openly recreationally as you think, MANY MANY doctours refuse to use it in this matter.

You must live in a really fucked up place with doctors that give a damn...

Just a question...

Are you including contraceptive (The Morning After / PLAN B) pills as an abortion method?

[Shelbay]

Shelbay, I agree with Bizzle in the sense that most young girls do not intentionally use abortion as a form of BC. A good number of abortions are performed on middle, upper middle, or upper class women who are either not interested in becoming mothers or have gotten themselves in to a position that they don't want their hubbys to know about. From what I've read and seen, most of these younger girls end up getting abortions because they didn't think first and use it as a last act of desperation. Abortion has sadly become a huge generator of income for the clinics and doctors that perform.
But Bizzle, you are dead wrong that there are so many "difficulties" with giving babies up for adoption. There are literally tens of thousands of couples who wouldl love to adopt a baby and there are a lot of services, both public and private (mostly through religious agencies, catholic, protestant, jewish etc) that will help and support women through the pre natal period and well beyond with monetary, housing, educational and adoption services that don't cost a dime for the women who they service.

Shelbay, you were a bit out of line in your response to Bizzle especially labeling her a slut. I think you owe her an apology.

I owe her nothing! If she had wanted a debate with respect then show respect and that is what you get. She labeled me from the get go so no apology is forthcoming from me. I have been called much worse on this board and NEVER given an apology so I am sure she will be okay....I don't like her posts ....and if she don't like mine..then next time try a different approach and we can have a respectful debate. Talk trash to me and thats what you get back. Teenagers DO use abortion as a form of Birth Control...millions over the years..its so easy to kill a baby instead of abstaining or taking a pill everyday. If my posts and opinions offend you...don't read them. Where were you when I was called everything from a to Z on here demanding an apology?? hmmm. There was more I wanted to say but I did refrain sooo..you guys get over it. When you feel the need to defend another poster...do it for all...not just pick and choose k.

[dj defibrillator]

Just take a minute and think about the chances that someone in your family history was an 'accidental' child, even a bastard child. I think for most of us the chances are pretty good.

I'm not trying to defend this... trend. But its a fact of life. People fuck and sometimes a baby comes as a result of it. I've nothing against fucking, and I'm totally down with the notion that society still has a suffocatingly masculine perspective on things, and laws about abortion are generally a good indicator as to where society is in this regard. But all of this still doesn't change the fact that inside a woman's belly there is a LIVING human being, who has no less of a right to life than his mother.

Think about it; the whole thing is one of the tragic flaws of humanity.