Deep and Hard/Hardish...also for real success ...one must pump fast and last....that is, "last" for a respectable lenght of time...not that easy if your are banging at 3 pumps a second! I always squirt first on the first round...But you last longer on the second and third attempt...!

If you feel her start to go...i.e. she pulls you tighter and grinds her muff into you more and starts breathing heavier and making strange sounds etc...then you know the finnish line is in sight!! At this point you must match her for pace ....stick a finger up her arse right about ...now! [Works best on the more experianced ladies....younger girls don't really "dig" that stuff yet]

Go with the flow man