Quote Originally Posted by Polymirize
I suppose that's a functional if rather regimented style. But remember, surprise can be the ultimate aphrodisiac. So don't just follow the ordered sequence "ten short, one deep, nine short, two deep, oh shit, lost count..." try and honestly listen to your partner and respond to her. change things up and keep her guessing. If she knows you're moving onto "six short, 4 deep" before you do, it means she's counting...

thrusting advice... gotta love open forums...
I'm definitely with you. It isn't a rehearsed thing... but, to get an idea, the count helps... until you can "honestly listen to your partner and respond to her".

But what the hell, the guy was asking for advice, so I started with the basics.