what's wrong with me?

[officerleeroy]

So lately I've been seeing my friends with their girlfriends and it has just been making me think too much about why I can't get one...I didn't have a girlfriend at all during high school and for a long time before that...whenever I do meet a girl I turn out to be nothing more than a friend another thing that has been bothering me is that I'm the only guy out of every one of my friends that is still a virgin...

I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice or just reasons but if anyone wants to give it a shot I'd appreciate it...

officerleeroy Reviewed by officerleeroy on 02-07-2006. what's wrong with me? So lately I've been seeing my friends with their girlfriends and it has just been making me think too much about why I can't get one...I didn't have a girlfriend at all during high school and for a long time before that...whenever I do meet a girl I turn out to be nothing more than a friend:( another thing that has been bothering me is that I'm the only guy out of every one of my friends that is still a virgin... I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice or just reasons but if anyone wants to Rating: 5

[Synbios]

Can't really offer you any advice I don't think...but if it's any consolation, I'm 19 and I'm the same.

[friendowl]

you must not be applying yourself.
if you wanna be with a girl then step your game up.
get a nice ride some nice clothes some good cologne
some money and hit the club.
if worst comes to worst and its almost 2 in tha morning
then there is always the fat chicks

[Powder Puff]

Sorry to be the one to say this, but maybe you're aims are to high??

Maybe you're not forward enough.. If you're not, then you should be! So what if you get embarrased?? I embarrase myself ALL the time.. lol.. You can't do anything other than laugh about it..

Good luck.. You'll get something sooner or later..!



The night I lost my virginity was a night when I threw a party.. lol.. I was standing on the couch, everybody was singing, my mom came upstairs, I noticed her.. I was dancing with a girl on the couch, and when my mom was there, I just started making out with her.. lol.. You should have seen the grin on my mom's face... lol!

After that, we went to another party, and me and this girl went into antother room.. Did it for a while without interuptions, but people just came storming in all the time.. lol! The same girl came THREE times.. lol

Point is.. You'll get down to it sooner than you think.. It wasn't even in my thought's to get laid that night.. lol

[friendowl]

shit puff you bad
first time i fucked i nutted as soon as i seen the puss

[420purplehaze420]

Steven Seagal recommends you to be confident. Be yourself (or act like Steven Seagal), and everything should ben ok. But the best idea is, again, to claim you know Steven Seagal personnally. Steven Seagal can arrange you a meeting with any hot porstar too, but Steven Seagal is too busy to take care about all your pityful lives.

Pray god (A.K.A. Steven Seagal), and hope.

listen steven we already have Mcauley Caulkin on these boards we dont need another fake celebrity

just be confident and talk to girls a lot and if you think they want you act on it dont spend your life wandering what could ahve been

[fatweedsack]

just get ripped. work out everyday n shit n get jacked. then the ladies will start to see you in a different way. hopefully naked

[fatweedsack]

also just try stepping up and being a man and realize that the girls are expecting you to make the move...
If you think some hottie is into you dont just wonder about it, act on it.
if you get turned down then o well. dont let it bother you.



damnit man why dont u ask ur friends to help u out. they obviously penetratin bitches all the time

[officerleeroy]

I think I have a lack of confidence because I'm very shy when it comes to talking to girls. My friends aren't really any help, whenever I ask them they just say "i dunno". I know I'm not nearly as shy as I used to be which is in a way progress, but I still have trouble saying the right things.

[Mr Greenthumb]

Man, i totally used to be like you, only a little more extream. For a while all i could think about was "Chicks don't dig me, whats wrong with me? What else can i try? Maybe i'm not going for the right type of girl." Whatever. Anyway, it lead me into a deep deppression for about a year.

And then i discovered weed . . .

And like the Great Cornwall Jackson tells me, weed fixs EVERYTHING. He's right too.

Well anyway, i was having a lot more fun. I was hangin out with a lot of knew people and i was doing more with my friends. Soon, i stopped trying to get a girlfriend (partly because i have tried everything, i changed look, personality more then once, probably more then 5 times) and i stopped trying to figure out why i couldn't. Hell, i had never once heard about anyone like me in that way. And then, the deppression went away because i wasn't thinking about as much.
Over time i made myself belive that i would never ever be with anyone, to totally devote myself to the magic that is the high. I never gave dating and shit a second thought. I just didn't care anymore and guess what? Girls started liking me!!! Of course i've still never been with anyone, but now that is MY choice.

Dude, just stop caring. I remembered theorising on why some guys just can't seem to get girls and i noticed that the guys who did have girls never really seemed to care all that much. I theorised that if i stopped caring, they'd start caring and it looks like for me i was right.

Man, don't dwell on these kinds of things. You'll end up seriously fuck up your mind.