MY mom is getting on my nerves

[imagoober]

damn im very glad i didnt have these kinda problems. my mom is so cool that see lent me $100 to buy a qp.

That's a mother for you. Those who fight back end up with problems. Those who everything she says end up with nothing. Best advice is to keep doing what you're doing and staying out of trouble as much as possible, anything that might alert her that you're up to no good is bad. In the instance that you've described it seems that she was wrong, and in that case I'd suggest sitting down with your dad and telling him what happened. If yo really didn't do anything then he'll put in a good word for you.

i totally agree with you, thats what i would do!

(I just remembered when i got back today she had been through my cupboards and took my bong luckily she didnt see the near 3oz of mushrooms! i would have been in shit then.....)

do you know what she did with it?

[Jimmicrackedcorn]

I don't think he told her, his parents just found out, thats a shame about ure mother, problems ppl experience when takin drugs is usually other ppl telling them there opinion on it, and cuz you know its all shite you will get angry and try and defend it, or ridicule the opinion cuz of how blatently full of shit it is (Gateway theory), but the best thing to do in any argument of words is to stay calm when ppl are goin mad at u, this will get under there skin 10x more than yellin back at them with a counter argument, and when just one person is screaming, they'll begin to feel like a bit of a twat after a while, way I dealt with that problem was doin that and asking them how much they know about weed actually scientifically, not read from papers or jus plain hear say, but real medical papers that study its effects? the ansa will usually be no to which you can then offer a middle ground and ask them what they don't like about ganja, and shred it, but in a more matter of fact way than 'Hey mom get ure fuckin head out of papers' way. Good Luck with the next couple of weeks, ure gonna need a lot of ganj to keep chill, but just keep rememberin to stay calm as you said, 3 more years and ure gone seems like a long time, but it will come.

[Syrus]

Ever sicne the party i had my parents havent minded bout me smokngi weed, as lngo as i dont bring friends home

[Swizzy89304]

Try talking to her about it... and if she keeps butting in all the damn time (like women do) or just walks off to do womany things (washing, cleaning, ironing, hoovering, cooking, etc) then write it all down and leave it on her bed. Dont write stuff like 'I do it cos I fucking enjoy it and you cant fucking stop me' etc etc, be polite. Also, try saying/writing that you did take a break from it for a while, tell her the differences in your moods in those two time periods. Oh, and something Id say if I was in your position - look, I wasnt stoned that time when you thought I was, and I find it very upsetting that you cant even trust your own son.
BTW, the womany jokes were my piss poor sense of humor. No, I havent had a girl in a long, long time. Lol. But Im not bothered - theyre more bloody trouble than theyre worth!

[Az.]

do you know what she did with it?

nope, she hasn't even said anything about it.....i doubt she will....
its probly already at the dump

oh well shit happens....ands its their house if they dont want a used bong in it.....i suppose thats fair enough

my computer has been taken out of my room now....put in the dining room....so when i got back today ive moved all my school work onto the table we eat at.....and there is a shitload of it......she has do deal with the consequences of her actions.....

[gangagirl]

Imagoober: did u turn out ok?

[patten]

ah, fights with mom. I had them constantly from i was 16 till i moved out when i was 18. It was hell on earth. The first time my parents found out i smoked hash, they did not get mad. But 3 weeks later they found out i smoked siggies, and i was grounded for god knows how long.
Later, i was busted for smoking hash many time, and mom always freaked out. We were fighting all the time, and whatever i did wrong, the hash was always the reason. My dad is a bit more liberal, and he got in the middle of us. I feel really bad for him now, because my mom was a bitch, and i was a huge asshole.
Now my mom thinks i have stopped smoking hash, but my dad is a little smarter, he just dont care as long as i have a job and so on.
If she continues to search trough your stuff all the time, start to do the same with her stuff. And she will understand how it is to have no private life.

[BobBong]

All i can say is, be glad your mom's not like the mom in this video

http://www.ebaumsworld.com/videos/mean_mom.html

unless.. she is.. that'd suck