MY mom is getting on my nerves

[ibreakthings]

My mom knows I smoke, and she has zero toleration of it. I try to respect her and I mostly keep it out of the house. I've explained to her a million times how I dont drink because it's bad for me, how I usually vaporize it so that I'm not smoking, but she doesn't beleive me that it's not bad for you. My dad doesn't like me doing it but he doesn't get on my ass about it and will actually sit down with me and talk to me about it. My mom will just ground me, make me go everywhere with her, come in my room and check on me every 5 minutes, if she thinks I was stoned.

Yesterday I stayed after at school to do my homework and then called her. She came and got me. The corner of my eye was red, like a little spot that you can see if I look to the left. That was the only part on my eye that was red for whatever reason. I wasnt high but she assumed I was because of it.

She apparently went through the basement and found some lighter that wasn't even mine. I had never even brought a lighter down there, but she assumes it's mine because I'm the only one in my family that would have one. Now I'm grounded and she just tried to make me go to the doctor appt. with my sister but I was playin halo and she just left without me and now I'll be in more trouble.

Now I know shes my mom and I do respect her but sometimes she just gets so out of hand that I can't just sit there and let her be a bitch to me. I have actually tried to stop smoking, like from august to january I hadn't smoked one bit. But she still thought I did it and I still got in trouble If my eyes were red, If i was being "suspicious" or anything like that. And smoking is like my favorite thing to do... you guys understand that. Nothing compares to it and my mom cant understand why I do it. She just thinks I do it because people pressure me, but its quite different than that. Alot of people have told me not to including my friends but I tell them why and they understand. I would never do something just because people tell me to.

I guess this is just a rant but if you got anything to say go ahead.

ibreakthings Reviewed by ibreakthings on 02-07-2006. MY mom is getting on my nerves My mom knows I smoke, and she has zero toleration of it. I try to respect her and I mostly keep it out of the house. I've explained to her a million times how I dont drink because it's bad for me, how I usually vaporize it so that I'm not smoking, but she doesn't beleive me that it's not bad for you. My dad doesn't like me doing it but he doesn't get on my ass about it and will actually sit down with me and talk to me about it. My mom will just ground me, make me go everywhere with her, come in Rating: 5

[3 Sheets To The Wind]

My parents used to be like that, now they just tell me to stop and say I'll OD on heroin in a couple of years.

Well tonight my parents are off with me for some reason. Last night there was a news report about cannabis about how you get mental illness from it, and guys in prison saying shit like "If I'd just never touched weed when I was younger I wouldn't be here now." Well this evening, I got back from college and my Mum was all quiet and not herself (she's quitting her job and getting a hard time about it), then my Dad got back and was fine with me, he spoke to my Mum for about 10 minutes, then I went into the lounge to ask what was for after dinner and he looked pissed off and didn't even look at me.

I don't know what the fuck's up, but it has to stop, this is whack!

[mellow mood]

wow, your parents sucks

[bedake]

hahaha... funny shit man funny shit, my parents have raised 10 kids so when i got arrested they barely even cared, they know what teenagers do big deal kids smoke pot, who doesnt or didnt when they were a kid? its the social norm practically to smoke in high school

how old are you? 10? 12? tell your mom "listen here bitch! when i turn 18 i am soooo outta here! so says every troubled youth while living at home under strict parents...

[ibreakthings]

lol do i sound 10? I'm 15... 3 more years and I get to leave. But do I really sound 10?

[Nochowderforyou]

Parents are weird sometimes.

Luckily, it has never been a problem. When I was younger, about 16, or 17, my mom was always concerned about me leading into other drugs. The funny thing is, I never really started smoking until I was 19 or so. It must have been the booze and cocaine giving me away

The bad thing is, your parents will never change. They were raised on, by the sounds of it, that MJ is a gateway drug. This is how they were raised and taught, no changing them man.

Good luck.

[Whos Carl]

I put the same thing to my mum. She wasnt against cannabis in the slightest but she just said how much do you smoke a week. Then I said its better for you than alcohol and I vapouriser so reduced negative effects.

[ScarlettCrush]

I had one of those too.....

Try not to get too pissed off about it, she is doing what she "thinks" is best for you and honey that is a damn site better than having parents that don't give a shit at all about ya. She bugs you because she loves you and as paranoid as she is about it, I bet she knew someone who's life got fucked up because of drugs. She loves you, just try to keep it out of her site and stuff.
When she comes up with her paranoid "I know you're high" don't get defensive, get rational with her.
How would I get high at school?
Do you really think I would risk taking drugs at school?
I respect you too much to ride around with you right after I blaze mom.
That lighter isn't mine, you don't have to beleive me but please don't punish me because you think it might be.
And above all, never, hardly ever, lie to your parent's, that trust thing is easy to break and fucking hard to get back.
This kind of stuff might lead to a real discussion, and even if it doesn't she will know you better and if she see's you making some semi-responsible decisions she may lighten up on you.

[Whos Carl]

Parents are right when they say cannabis is a gateway drug. The gateway to a wonderful world full of pixies and dancing fairys.

[bedake]

lol do i sound 10? I'm 15... 3 more years and I get to leave. But do I really sound 10?

heh nah dude i was just being a dick i apologize