What to do??

[tokinggreg]

I really feel like some of my friends I had been smoking with were using me for weed. The thing that hurts is they were the ones that got me started, so like I felt real close to them, but once I bought a half oz, they kind of expected me to start spotting them everytime which I didn't even mind too much cause they would always be dry or whatever. I figured, when I run out, they cover me too.

But last night, I woke up at like 2am to use the bathroom (this is in a dorm suite) and I smelled the distinct aroma of weed and I knew they were all "just hanging out" in the room before. So basically, they smoked without me which means obviously one of them has had weed and totally just not been sharing with me. It could have just been incidental that they decided they wanted to smoke only after I fell asleep, but something is telling me they just waited until I was asleep until they toked. Maybe I'm being paranoid?

I really want to confront one of them in a subtle way, just making them realize they were being assholes without coming off as a jerk myself. I was thinking I could start with like, "So I noticed you guys finally got some weed..." OR "I'm running kind of low, I was wondering if you could spot me?" I'm thinking the second option might be better; I could sort of pretend I'm down to a gram or something and see if they let me smoke some of their weed. If not, then f--k it, i'm not talking to them again.

tokinggreg Reviewed by tokinggreg on 02-07-2006. What to do?? I really feel like some of my friends I had been smoking with were using me for weed. The thing that hurts is they were the ones that got me started, so like I felt real close to them, but once I bought a half oz, they kind of expected me to start spotting them everytime which I didn't even mind too much cause they would always be dry or whatever. I figured, when I run out, they cover me too. But last night, I woke up at like 2am to use the bathroom (this is in a dorm suite) and I smelled Rating: 5

[justinsane]

dude - rule #1 -
if your friends arent 100% best friends, then dont let ANYONE know you have weed, just be like. i have a bowl or two if you wanna match....

never let them know you have a large quantity of weed, because yes, "friends" want to smoke alot, and if they know you have it, theyll try to use it.

[sharpezor]

yes even really good friends steal shit from you. Especially, Especially!!!! weed.

only people i could trust is

a. my brother (we have an agreement - "dont tell the parrents")
b. my friend mike
c. my friend Tyler

fuck everyone else, if you think someone is stealing your shit, fuckin hide it or something :P

[imagoober]

in a dorm you smell weed. i dont beleave you JK. humm maybe they had a friend come over who had some. maybe it wasnt theres or they just got some. i would not confront them, just maybe say hay did someone come over last night i smelled some weed.

[Chucky76]

in a dorm you smell weed. i dont beleave you JK. humm maybe they had a friend come over who had some. maybe it wasnt theres or they just got some. i would not confront them, just maybe say hay did someone come over last night i smelled some weed.

yeah, i would agree with imagoober. there could be extenuating circumstances...you were asleep, maybe they just werent thinking about anything other than weed and didnt think or were to lazy to wake you up. for all they knew you could be pissed at them for waking you.