Quote Originally Posted by midlifecrisis
Old farts opinion: Babyface is right, usually the I'm fat or i'm ugly routine is an unfortunate female response to insecurity. The issue is not always based on the security of looks or a relationship, it sometimes can be far from it, the best thing for this, and yes guys it can hurt, is to talk....talk...talk...don't expect the truth the first time. Remember it is about insecurity... break through that barrier and you'll have a life partner!!! Of course I could be a quack!!
I dumped my last girlfriend because she was insecure (and completely unreasonable). I got a new and better girlfriend who is secure and quite reasonable. Talking is great.. but many people don't want to talk (even despite trying for three years). My ex did some wacky things to assure herself that I'd stay with her, but ironically it wound up scaring me away.
fractur Reviewed by fractur on . my girl is a moron my girlfriend is saying she is fat and ugly but she is far from it. why is she doing this fishing for complements? cuz i tell her how beautiful she is every day. she is far from far anfd nowhere near ugly. i dont understand this, those of you who know my gf will vouch she is not ugly i dont know what to say to her, i feel bad, i dont like to see her depressed Rating: 5