just don't smoke at home. my dad smokes everyday and he knows, i smoke his stuff sometimes, but my mom is a christain. i grew up in the church. sorry to tell ya it says plain as day "stay sober" because these are dangerous times. i feel like telling god to stay sober. well the best advice i can give ya is don't do at home. or wait till youre 18. i'll be 18 in a couple months, there's nothing she can do anyway.