sir smoky...the only problem with dealing with ppl unexperienced is fiiting in their shoes...not easy...and then you'll find the right argument....at first saying that your in love with mj doesn't help at all cause when you love you're blind...so the person feel like talking to someone blind...next time you get into that kind of conversation end it by saying something like "lets try a long term experience, lets keep contact and i'll show you it doesn't harm as much as you were told"

anyways good luck on your crusade against stupid ppl!