Hey, i got the same problem as buddy here, ive been caught once, my brother got wasted and told them and they asked me if i did and confessed about it, my dad was cool and talked to me about but my mom flipped and started crying that i was gonna be a fuck up like my brothers just cuz i smoke a bit of pot every once in a while, i sitll smoke and im debating with myself if i should come out and be liek listen, i smoke weed sometimes and its not fuckin me up and my grades are fine, i fucked up one term bad in math and got a 55 but since then my math grade has been increasing 5 eveery time and the rest of my grades are mostly 80's