I feel for you Wooman. We all want that special girl. I always portrey confidence, while being cocky. The cocky and funny technique works wonders. However, I really can't stand being rejected. It just makes me depressed. After it happens I'll just psycho analyze myself. 'Am i ugly?' 'Why would she go out with HIM and not ME?' ''Fuck, just being friends, I want some pussy!' Those are some of the things that i say to myself when i'm rejected. I just can't help it. With every rejection I lose more and more confidence. Just keep talking to her on msn and being yourself. Just be wary of the 'only be friends zone' =/ It's a killer.