I really like this girl.

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Hey crazy,

First off,

When I hear you call yourself "dirt" that is not good.
Internal scripts carry powerful messages whether they be positive or negative.

Here is why.

When the conscious mind tells the subconsciuos mind something the subconscious mind will then externalnize that thought and make it true, it is then expressed subconsciuosly in your facial expressions and body language and is picked up on by others, especially women who are highly intuitive.

So from now on red flag any thoughts that you are dirt or not good enough or ANYTHING that is negative. Bag it, Tag it and cast it out of your thoughts.

Bottom line. It kills your confidence. If you are not confident she will sense this. Internal scripts are like mental telepathy.

Replace those thoughts with:

"I am amazing at connecting with women"
"Women are drawn to me"
"I can connect with her like no other man"
"Do you want to experience an intimate connection with me"

Say these things to yourself when you are around women or while you are in conversation with women, have these thoughts simultaneously running in your mind at the same time.

The auto-suggestion aspects will allow you to employ parts of the brain that will assist you in making your internal statements true. In addition you will give off a vibe that you believe what you are internally saying.

She will pick up on that. Its the same as if you said to yourself: "I want to rip her clothes off" It will be obvious in your look and you are likely to scare her off.

Look at yourself in the mirror.

Feel free to make some negative comments: "I am a loser", "people hate me", etc. you will notice that your face will slightly change to reflect those internal thoughts.

Now say a series of positive comments. "I am amazing", " I connect with women", "I AM THE MAN"! lol

You will now notice how your face has made another slight physical change, your positive vibe give-off has just increased 1600%! Even though the actual physical change in your face was only 0.1%!

Transform yourself internally first. I cant stress how important this is. Ebrace yourself and your uniqueness. When talking to her or when you are in her presence try to say genuine caring things that reflect unselfish intentions.

It is important that a man feel as though he is sexually desirable to women.
This type of confidence affects your overall confidence more so than any other type of confidence. The guy with more confidence in a dating environment will overwhelmingly attract more women than his lesser confident counterparts.

If you are charismatic then your efforts to turn her on sexually will be extremely easy, almost effortless. This is the quality of having others magnetized to you on a non-sexual level.

When a woman sees how you can consistently inspire others and how easily you can make other people (male or female), BRIGHTEN UP, she will have no choice but to be drawn to you.

Obviously if you are charming to others, you will appear charming to her as well, but the process of her observing your charismatic effects on others will have a positive effect on a different level.

Here is how it works.

Super charisma= Confidence + Engaging + Compassion + Sense of Humor.

You must have:

1. Confidence in yourself.
2. Compassion for others.
3. A sense of humor. (comic sense of humor and seeing the world
optimistically).
4. The ability to engage and interact effortlessly with others.

This turns you into a babe magnet.

For a woman to be really drawn to you she has to know that she can only get what YOU got from YOU. This is your uniqueness. Then she detects and sniffs out your you-ness she'll say things like:

"there is just something about you"
"your not like everyone else"
"Ive never heard that before"


Ok. Back to this girl your talking about.

Avoid these mistakes.

You cant tell this girl how you feel. That is the wrong approach to attraction.
That will definently scare her away.

You cant ask her out over the internet. That definently shows no confidence.

If you establish conversation keep it going in person. Keep it light and friendly and project like I told you to at the start of this letter with internal script, and YOU be the one to always leave first on a high note in the conversation. Keep it short.

Directly after a compliment of the clothes works well. Say, " By the way you look good in yellow". She will most likely say "thanks" then you need to leave right away. This will capitivate her attention and the compliment will last for days. Its powerful let it work for you.

One good compliment lasts for a long time so dont think that more is better because it has the opposite effect.

Always be the one to leave first, be off the phone first, or when you walk her to her door after a date. Leave first. This is a powerful thing to do. You lower you value when she is always first at these things or tells you its time to go.

You said, "I was going to take this girl I like to the prom but she is going with someone else".

That shows you are giving up sexual value. NEVER do that. If you have a good looking sister or know other girls start being seen with them around this girl. This will increase your value.

Avoid statements to yourself with a girl you havent even dated, "I hope she has a place in her heart for me".

Stay away from feelings and talk of such things, these come much, much later in small doses only and given with the notion of "MIGHT have feelings for you", "I THINK there MIGHT be something there but Im not sure"

This makes you an emotional challenge which is what she REALLY wants and will make HER chase YOU. When you flat out make conformations of your feelings early it has the opposite effect of what you want and scares women away because you have now removed the emotional challenge and make them feel obligated at the same time. There is an old saying with wisdom, "Dont wear your heart on your sleave" there is a reason for that.

I saw your photo on the lounge page by the way. Nothing wrong with you at all.

Loose the knit cap. If you have some contacts that would help.
Make sure you are dressed nice around this girl. Put on slacks, dress shoes and a shirt and tie. They love a guy that dresses well. And the more women that notice you being dressed nice around this girl will help because your value will go up. Its the competition factor amongst women. Play it to your advantage.

When your in public around her keep your chin up your shoulders back, make eye contact, (never look down after a woman makes eye contact with you, its a sign of submission). Walk slightly fast. All these things project confidence. Combine these things with super-charisma, and transform your internal scripts and you are now at a huge advantage.

When you have conversations with this girl try to allow about 5 days from seeing you again. Then have another conversation. If your in her face constantly day after day it drives her interest level down. Women need this amount of time of breathing space.

I want you to read everything I posted for Wannagethigh two days ago so I dont have to type all that out again. There is alot of info there. Also review past thread, (asking a woman out the right way).


Im trying to do several things here:

Increase your value, build seduction, eliminate anti-seduction traits.

Ill be around if you need help.


Take care

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Thanks for the advice man! Lol, i'll try to be more confident with-in myself. iv never worn that hat around her anyway 'cus school makes us wear crappy uniforms with a blazer and a tie and crap. So dress wise im already wearing a tie.... I've never really talked to her in real life before but im gonna try tommorow, someone thats in my school form i think hangs out with her at lunch tmies so ill proberly just ask him if i can hang out with him to get closer to her. But im not a very good person at bringing up subjects.

"hi, how r u?" "im good thnx, you?" "im gd"....

one time when i was staning with some of my mates outside a classroom waiting to go in her and a big crowd of people were not so far away, and i noticed she glanced at me a few times. So she very well could be intrested. I'm thinking, mybe of becoming a good friend to her over the next month or so, then ask her who she's takin to the prom (all tho i already know) and she'll proberly ask who im taking and i could be like "i was gonna take this girl i really like, but shes already taking someone else" and she might ask who it is.... I guess confidence is the key. Never really realised that women could detect it or not but from what you've said seems very usefull to me, and i'll be sure to look for those other threads you were talking about. Thanks

[rab]

she glanced? dude, she's been having sex with you for weeks! Imagine what her brains would be like if they were anything like what they really are. You have already been as good for her as her fingers are able to be. Start by adding your fingers to hers.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Just talked to her on MSN, took your advice Ganjasaurusrex and left first, she came online, i said hey, asked her how she was, she asked how i was ect. then i asked how the baby sitting went, she sed it went good thx, and then i thought i wud do that always be the one to leave first thing, so i told her that i had to run and put "cya xxx" but her status was set to busy so i waited for a response for about 5 seconds but then i just signed out.

I dont know wether it was a good thing, or a bad thing that i just did that....

[turtle420]

Kid, I'll give you one piece of advice that worked wonders for me... take it to heart:::

He who hesitates, masturbates....

[Musician]

im still laughing at crazypothead "im in love" quote

hahahahahaaha

what a nerd

[Reefer Rogue]

I feel for you Wooman. We all want that special girl. I always portrey confidence, while being cocky. The cocky and funny technique works wonders. However, I really can't stand being rejected. It just makes me depressed. After it happens I'll just psycho analyze myself. 'Am i ugly?' 'Why would she go out with HIM and not ME?' ''Fuck, just being friends, I want some pussy!' Those are some of the things that i say to myself when i'm rejected. I just can't help it. With every rejection I lose more and more confidence. Just keep talking to her on msn and being yourself. Just be wary of the 'only be friends zone' =/ It's a killer.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

im still laughing at crazypothead "im in love" quote

hahahahahaaha

what a nerd

Im still laughing at the fact your a bold french freak with no fucking eye brows. That thinks im 14 altho im 16 pretty soon.

hahahahahahaha

What a dumbass. Owned.

Go away, frenchie

Learn to drive on the right side of the road for once :thumbsup:

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Im still laughing at the fact your a bold french freak with no fucking eye brows. That thinks im 14 altho im 16 pretty soon.

hahahahahahaha

What a dumbass. Owned.

Go away, frenchie

Learn to drive on the right side of the road for once :thumbsup:

Hey, hey, Americans drive on the right side, not the left like you guys.

Stick to something better...like YOU TOAD SUCKING POTATO FRYING SON OF A BITCH!

[Zinnia]

Kid, I'll give you one piece of advice that worked wonders for me... take it to heart:::

He who hesitates, masturbates....

Hit the nail on the head! (So to speak)