Great thread.

I think it depends on the female. I gave dildo??s a shot when I was in my early 20??s and I didn??t care for them (they just made me all frustrated) the only way I could orgasm was with the real deal.

Now in my early 30??s I can say I was sooooooooooo wrong about them. I used to worry that ??Larry? was spoiling me off men. That sex with mere mortals would somehow be diminished because of our relationship.

Again, I was wrong.

I??ve found that it makes me more versatile in my orgasms. Meaning now I can have them just by a guy using his fingers whereas before Larry and I met that was totally unheard of.

But I can go for months without asking him for a date and other times we see each other pretty regular.

He??s much better than his name sake?and he doesn??t dip into my stash.




The key to getting your girl to use one would be 1) her comfort level with you and 2) you??ve got to let her know you think it would be hot.