i know what you mean when your not a hardcore/bogan/stoner you dont want to go up to one of them and ask for pot they be calling you a stoner till the day you die and you dont want that spreading to parents, princables and such. i have a friend that will definitly be in the right place when hes older. anyways if you look like a nerd on the street wear a hoody, jeans and (if you look half decent in them) sunnys no big deal