OK I am sorry if I seemed to belittle the whole thing before, but
'just like spiritually closer i would say. But then a guy she used to like comes back from college and she hung out with him to see if she still had feelings for him and he touched her against her will and he forced her to touch him so she stopped talking to him and got depressed'
I have heard this story before and know how it goes 'you help her through her hour of need-getting close to her and thinking she is close to you, she leads you to believe she cares for you-then she goes back to the abusing cunt'.
I do not know why but I guarantee you that is what will happen.