advice needed

[Jim Morrison]

well i asked she said she dosent know cause shes in a situation where shes starting to like some one else and she loves me as a friend and i rock and im better then everyone else so oh well guess not

i told her to keep me in mind though

[Ganjasaurusrex]

What did you ask her?

[Jennifer K]

How old is she? Sounds like she just might not be into you that way.

[Jim Morrison]

i think i asked her if she would ever go out with me and for the other post i wont discuss age but i do know she did and still does like me shes just not sure who she likes more i should have asked her out earlier but i cant live in the past + theres some hope left and being a little bummed out is nothing some jack daniels or southern comfort cant fix

[Psycho4Bud]

The ol' friend bit huh....start talkin' heavy about some other lady. Jealousy is a bitch...your a reliable back up right now that she probably doesn't want to loose. Reverse psychology, gotta love it!:thumbsup:

[Jim Morrison]

that wouldnt work in this situation she knows how anti social i am she worked really hard to get me to like her plus if she thinks i have someone else she wouldnt have second thoughts about the other guy

[stonerat]

My first post here

Do not fall into the friend trap if you really like her-get seriously drunk together and see what happens:dance:

[Jim Morrison]

i wouldnt do something like that

[stonerat]

I didn't mean get her drunk and take advantage of her-just get drunk together and you may find she just jumps on you, it's happened to me All your worries about what to do can get sorted real quick

[Jim Morrison]

Hmmm? Well i dont know usually when im drunk im not really in control of my body. i usually end up crawling on the ground pretending im in vietnam, eating cat food to gross people, out or going into the bathroom putting shaving creme on my entire face and walking out with my pants down and my cock in my hand but i do those things when im sober so its nothing new to anyone shes never seen me get that crazy though and i kinda dont want her too

and i dont know if shed drink with me, idk it might be weird to hang out with her now. i know she likes to drink but she dosent drink to get drunk she just gets a buzz then stops drinking.

The thing about this that bothers me the most is she used to hang out with me alot, and talk to me on the phone or aim for hours all the time. but now she barely says anything on aim and i know its because shes talking to other people like this other guy and is too caught up in those conversations to talk to me.

The story of it all goes like this she had a crush on me so she starts hanging out with me and chats on aim alittle bit. And she gets me to have a crush on her. Then we started talking alot more, hours on the telephone and aim having really meaningfull conversations. we got to really know eachother and started to like eachother a lot. Then she tells me she has feelings for me and i tell her i have feelings for her and we got even closer weve never kissed or done anything like that though just like spiritually closer i would say. But then a guy she used to like comes back from college and she hung out with him to see if she still had feelings for him and he touched her against her will and he forced her to touch him so she stopped talking to him and got depressed, and i was there for her i helped her get over it. Then she started to have crushes on other guys and id ignore it, shed tell me how im diffrent from them she loves me and only has crushes on them cause she thinks there cool (these guys shes has crushes on are big time nerds so i didnt worry to much its her opinion on who she thinks is cool). She told one of them she liked him but he told her he just likes her as a friend. But now this new guy comes along and hes actively looking for a girlfriend so hes trying all his female friends she said she still likes me alot but shes starting to like him now too and that shes confused. he even dared her to ask him out. she dosent ask guys out but all her friends are telling her too (im not sure but i know they talk to him so theyre probably telling him she likes him and hes too shy to ask her out so he dared her to and is telling them to make her ask him out) so now i dont know what to do.

shes confused, im confused

and her friends arent helping (most of them hate me because im so weird)

i hope she makes up her mind on who she likes more soon its driving me nuts