Sounds like what your describing, the fact that she does not want your Dad to find out is the taboo aspect of doing what she is not supposed to do, therefore it is exciting for her to do it.

Play along with it like your worried that you Dad might find out even though you might not care.

Women absolutly love doing what they are NOT supposed to do. This is a good thing for you.

She has intial interest in you. So thats the natural progression. Your off to the right start.

By all means go for some conversation. Loose the cigarettes though and chew some gum instead.

Hold back and let her make the touching moves first. Not you first. After she touches you then touch her but not more than she touches you. Always pull back and leave her wanting more.

When you go for the first kiss it is important to watch the body language and follow her lead signals.

She will normally put her head back a certain way while you are close. At that point instead of going for the kiss right off the bat just stroke a strand of her hair between your fingers and continue to look in her eyes. She should have her head back slightly looking up at you and it is very hard NOT to miss this certain "look".

At that point go for a soft kiss. No tongue. Keep it light and short. Pull back once again leaving her wanting more. Make her work for it. Pay attention to her after the first kiss she will non-verbally let you know if she wants more.

Dont ask to kiss, ever. Seduction sin.

It is a non-verbal signal and asking ruins it. So she will let you know when to proceed non-verbally. Dont proceed until she gives you these non-verbal clues.

Before having sex it is VERY important to let the tension build first.

Be patient. I cant stress that enough.

Most men dont understand this important fact about women. Even men that have been married for many years still dont get it and dont understand why they get sexually rejected or why sex is not intense or frequent or ultimately why she cheats with a guy who pushes her buttons.

Dont put your hands on her and start making moves. Women can get offended if you do this.

So when the tension has built you will know because SHE WILL PUT THE MOVES ON YOU FIRST which is the right way to go about it. In other words she will let you know when she is ready.

But you are the one who creates the intensity within her.

Pay close attention to her levels of communication which are not as direct as how men speak to one another.

They are indirect and vague most times. When she feels you are picking up on this indirect language she will be drawn to you. This language is almost always indirect when it comes to sex so pay attention.

This language is very important to women and really want a guy to understand the indirect message.

The fact that your Dad might find out is actually a tension builder.

There are many tension builders. This is a lengthy subject in itself.

Concentrate on seduction, not sex. It is a progression with women that leads to sex and it starts in the mind. Breaking this natural progression and putting your needs first can kill the moment in an instant.

It is very important that she is the one chasing you not the other way around. You must maintain this challenge.

Be emotionally and sexually challenging. Dont feel guilty about pulling back momentary. Let her come after you.

Romance is good later on to build soft sexual tension, an important aspect of sex. But women are craving the other type MORE.

You want to build the kind of tension to where she has the look in her eyes like she wants to stab you!

The longer this tension builds, the more intense the sex.

Being soft, mushy, telling her your feelings etc. does nothing to build this kind of tension that she is craving.

Always, Always, Always tell yourself that you have sexual value. It will project non-verbally in intuitive script and she will pick up on that. Tell yourself things like:

"women are drawn to me"
"Do you want an amazing connection with me"

etc.

Not, "I want to get into your pants" You see the difference in the signals you are sending? Concentrate on the connection. Sometimes it can be hard to do at the same time while you are in a conversation with her. Women are very intuitive and can pick up on this.

So you need two things for this to happen:

1. Sexual value
2. opportunity, (a place for this to happen) sounds like that part is being arranged by
her in the dorm. So she is actually making it easy for you.


Quick tip:

Men are very turned on by what they see. (no-brainer).

Women are very turned on by how you make them feel, (sexual tension) and how they perceive you, (your sexual value), the challenge aspect. (Alot of guys dont understand this and think just taking off their clothes is all they have to do). Wrong approach. Its what happens most before sex that is important for women to have sex.


Take care