Seriously, what do you think...

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Hmmm. That just might work. But watch out the sisterhood is tight! She would have to be really loyal to you. Is there a way she might flirt without you telling her the actual plan to do so would be my first choice.

If not then just hope she doesnt tell this target girl your pre-arranged plan. That could backfire if she talks.

If she is your really good friend try to get her to laugh while the one you want is nearby or joke around with your good friend. Believe me they notice these things and makes them insecure.

Since there will be more guys than girls I would not play into any competition games with other males if the one you want starts flirting with the other guys. That is a sign of desperation amongst men. She might play that on you so now you can be prepared.

Imagine 3 guys around one girl competing for her attention.
Its the one guy that walks away that will catch her attention and she will be drawn to that guy. She will think: "why is he walking away" this makes her chase you. So competing with other males is a waste of time but actually works to your advantage by walking, so the other guys are actually helping you. So join the crowd briefly then walk.

Its the guy that holds back or walks that captivates her attention. She also thinks: "is there something wrong with me". All women have this need to FEEL beautiful.

So when you walk it throws em off balance. Or when you dont touch like I mentioned she thinks, "how come he isnt putting his hands all over me like all the other guys" you see that makes her think "is there something wrong with me" and makes her want to touch you.

Thats why its best to let her lead off. If your pawing at her like soo many other inexperienced guys this turns her off instantly. Your labeled desperate or sexual begger.

I proved that many times.

Once during a seminar given by a beautiful woman for the 3m corporation, during the break 6 guys were competing for the attention of this beautiful woman.I was starting to fall into that trap. I said to myself, "this is dumb", I walked away, (challenge) and went and sat down and acted disinterested and started reading.

I could listen to them carry on about taking her to the local bar down the road, they were cooing like doves. lol. "your pretty" etc etc. (o-brother)! I heard her agree to join all these guys at the bar after the seminar.

Well guess what.

Beautiful girl comes over and sits down next to me and starts talking while I was reading. the other guys looked puzzled all standing there by themselves! Next thing you know all the guys followed within about 15 minutes one at a time, not really understanding what was happening.

By then I had already asked for her home telephone number, (confidence) and she didnt hesitate. When the seminar was over she told all the guys that she was really tired and couldnt make it.

It was a risk that was worth it and payed off.

This is the fundamental law of attraction. We chase what eludes us. It even happens in nature among animals.

Its not the most colorful bird that does the elaborate dance for the female bird that gets to mate with her. Its the not-so colorful one that doesnt dance and chooses to fly away that she chases. These laws of attraction have been around forever.

So trying to compete to win her and seeking approval is pointless.

Also check out past thread: (asking a woman out the right way).<important.
(tough guys, nice guys and gentlemen) <important.(Women and testing) important.

I still need to cover:Sexual value, building tension, Seduction and antiSeduction, levels of communication. Soon. Powerful topics.

But all this will help you in the future whether its with this girl or the next. This info will greatly boost your confidence and women will pick up on that because you understand what is happening and you cant be caught up in the confusion games women play on men.

Confusion is a major part of her game.
Dont be one of these guys that say to his buddies, "Well she says this and then turns right around and does just the opposite".

They are confused on purpose. She just steamrolled this guy with her game.

Out game her.

She is looking desperatly for that guy as well as the one who can read her non-direct level of communication messages.

Your already starting to have an advantage over other guys by learning this.
Pay close attention to how women react to situations.


I think youll do well because your knowledge is transformed into confidence.

So now when she tells you of this other guy. Just smile inside. Youll make him her friend instead. lol. friends=no sex. nice=no sex.

Ganjasaurusrex Reviewed by Ganjasaurusrex on 01-27-2006. Seriously, what do you think... Basically I want to know what you guys think my chances are with this girl? Also I'd love it for some girls to translate what this girl might be thinking into guy talk so that I dont make a fool out of myself. I have a little brother who is now 3 years old and for the last two years he has had the hottest babysitter. Just so you guys can understand how well I know her I have spent many nights talking/chilling with her on a few vacations and when she has to stay late. She his 19 and I Rating: 5

[wannagethigh]

Todays the last day! anyone else want to help?

[stonerat]

Be confident and have a bit of a gleam in your in your eye, Ganjasaurusrex is saying the truth, but if you try to remember everything he says you might forget to be you (who she likes, we hope). So be you but confident and pay attention to what she says and hopefully you will get flirty with her, if a girl insists you sleep in her dorm she sounds like she is initiating some flirtation to me.

[wannagethigh]

Ok well heres how it went, and basically not as well as I hoped.

We definatly flirted and had over all good vibes the whole night...but i just wasn't sure yet...so at one point i grabbed her friend and talked to her away from the group. Basically I asked her for advice and since she is her best friend and roomate I took all she said into huge consideration. She said that tonight was not the night to hu with her. Shes still kind of with that guy whatever that means and she wasn't sure it would work out that night. She said that I should definatly wait until I come over that weekend and definatly try something then. She also said that this girl talks about me a lot and says i'm really cute and funny, and that is why she thinks there is a chance she would hu with me. Well I took her advice and held off. Hopefully her roomate works some magic for me so it works out next time. Ps. at least this girl bought me a nice Lacoste shirt even though i didn't get any.

Thanks for the help guys.

[LordRuffleMontgomery]

If you can win over her friends, you've already won half the battle.

[sMOkeY bOB]

if all else fails stick it in when shes asleep, she mite wake up, but by then the damage is alredy done, haha nah im jokin good luck tho bro, these women things arent easy to catch, haha:stoned:

[partyguy420]

If you can win over her friends, you've already won half the battle.

well, with my girl, i had already stcuk it in, and im still only barley friends with one of her semi friends.

[Not Enough Herb]

wow ganja your are a god

i have nothing but respect for you, you must have been playing "the game" for a long time. genius man. pure genius. out game her.

im getting laid tomorrow!!

btw, good luck man, just follow ganja's advice, he knows what hes talking about.

[BloodyRedBarron]

Do You CUM here often?????:thumbsup:

[zero2104]

this is also a pretty old thread but "wannageyhigh" u said u went to her dorm in february wat happend?