hey, i'm in the same boat....recently moved to a new town, past 40 not into the all night club scene, can't find a hookup. MOM works, you prob. associating with one i associate with, but hate the wait! doing the "stealth grow" lemonboy described, should have my first harvest in may. nothing sticks out like a sore thumb more than a forty something trying to gain connections thru twenty boppers! didn't floyd pepper play bass in "dr. teeth and the electric mayhem"? muppet band featuring gonzo on drums?? or was it animal?