Oh, yeah, Bagz, the menthol thing works great...anything minty and tingly will work. Have your girl suck on an Altoid until it dissolves half way and then have her work on you. Or, have her suck on an ice cube, then go down on you, then have her take a sip of hot tea and go down on you again. The change in temperature will really feel good and she can keep switching back and forth between the ice cude and the hot tea. Or, she could have something else in her mouth like whipped cream (anything really). Not too much, so there's room for you (ha,ha)...you'll be able to feel the difference...OK, go try one of these suggestions right now!