its been a while since Ive been in that situation, but I think a lot of guys do the wrong thing... Asking someone out just outta the blue to me is not the way to go... Just talking here and there over time to her will get things going... and if she likes you, the both of you will get together somehow, someway... Thats how its always gone for me. I dont think Ive ever just gone up to some chic and said hey wanna go out or meet up? I guess not my style, plus usually girls try to talk to me first cos I'm shy, heh heh... But, Unless you know her well, I wouldnt do it, get to know her first... Just my advice and opinion, but good luck!