You need to handle the phone properly with women.

You have this all screwed up.(no offense).

Do not get the idea that you have to call her 24/7 to show her you like her. Do the opposite to get her to like you.

How about using the phone to set a date and only a date. On the phone, off the phone. It has to be short. Your chit-chatting too long and driving her interest level down by "talking as much as possible". Big mistake.

You might be able to turn this around. depends.

The reason she is "never there" is that someone in the house is covering for her not to be there see what Im saying. She is avoiding you. Bottom line her actions and let the ego hear the truth.

You need to use the phone properly to come across as a confident, challenging and self-contolling man and that starts from day one.

Talking on answer machines until your relationship is set is a bad move also. You give up self control and patience when you do this. After the relationship is set its ok to leave messages on machines.

You need to show confidence by asking for the home phone number from the start.

"give me your home telephone number" NOW AFTER YOU SAY THOSE WORDS STOP AND OBSERVE HER BODY LANGUAGE AND ENTHUSIAM AND THAT WILL TELL YOU HER INITIAL INTEREST LEVEL. That tells you to proceed or trash the number.

Women who are interested make it easy for you to get in touch. She will give you her home phone number. If she hands you a business card or asks for your number instead OR ANYTHING ELSE OTHER THAN THE HOME PHONE NUMBER SHE IS TELLING YOU SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. Women have a hard time telling a guy "no".

Dont say "Ill call you". ever. anti-challenge. Reasurances are bad.

You must wait 5-9 days to call her for the first time. It shows you are not hungry. It shows you have patience, it gives the perception of you being independent and challenging because 90% of all guys call within 2 days.

Consider yourself lucky to hear this.

You need to be direct when you ask for a date. You use the phone to set the date and that is all. For example, "Lets go snowboarding sunday at noon". < was that a direct statement or is "what do you want to do" or "do you want to go out"< both of those are weak and show no confidence.

You need to set the date and get off the phone.

1st best date. Starbucks or similar
2nd best date. Activity date, ski, snowboard etc,
3rd best date. Activity date
4th best date. Dinner

Avoid dinner dates first off the bat. There is too much pressure on each of you.

During the first date you dont make plans for the second date. Keep her wondering.

Keep it short you be the first to get off the phone, you be the first to cut the visit short and leave on a high note.

If things go well. Start the process over again by waiting 5-9 days to call again.
Women need this time to think about you. She wont forget you in 5-9 days if shes interested trust me on that. The opposite happens. Which is what you want.

Dont be available on weekends for the first 3 weeks into dating. If she counters for a saturday. Too bad. you have things to do. Counter back for another weekday. If she has only weekends accept a sunday. But no Fridays or Saturdays for 3 weeks into dating.



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Ganjasaurusrex Reviewed by Ganjasaurusrex on . I HATE THE PHONE WHY IS IT THAT WHEN EVER YOU LIKE A GIRL YOU GOT TO CALL HE 24/7 JUST TO MAKE HER THINK YOU LIKE HER. WELL QUICK QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS IF A GIRL LIKES ME (AND I KNOW SHE DOES A LITLE BIT) AND WE DONT GET TO CHILL EVER CAUSE SHE LIVES A WAYS AWAY AND IS STILL IN HIGHSCHOOL. WE PLAYED PHONE TAG FOR A WEEK AND FINALLY GOT IN TOUCH WITH EACH OTHER AND TALKED WITH EACH OTHER AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. WELL AFTER A BIT I KEPT CALLING AND SHE WAS NEVER THERE. SO I KINDA STOPPED CALLING AND Rating: 5