Quote Originally Posted by Ganjasaurusrex
Just one problem with communicating in text.

You say, "It means more to say it face to face", I say It means everything to say it face to face. Just dont say the wrong things or project the wrong things.

Your giving up something very valuable and that is to communicate on her DIFFERENT levels and that is done face to face. This is what every woman is looking for. Men communicate on one level, (directly). While women can communicate on up to 4, including directly and most often indirectly. You can never see that looking at text see what Im saying.

Your throwing Confidence, sexual value, suggestion, etc, etc. out the window, the most powerful things you have to offer by avoiding face to face interactions.

Writing your feelings is spilling your guts so to speak. Dont. Play your cards close to your chest. Be honest but open up very, very slowly. Twice as slow as she.
No conformations about where she stands with you. Spilling ones guts,(telling her your feelings), for acceptance is the wrong approach and worst thing you can do.

Be emotionally challenging.
SHUT UP.

Okay?

Have you ever thought that there are exceptions to your oh-so confidently given advice?

There are.

Being an emotional challenge and all that are great, but secrecy is a terrible practice.

Hiding one's emotions to make their lover more interested is BULL SHIT!

Stop spouting your advice.

Accept that, just maybe, there are exceptions.

And, since Paige is interested enough to say it could happen, just that she's interested in having fun and not missing out on the teen years, I think you're wrong here.

I like your advice, but don't adhere to it if it's not working in a certain case.

Besides, say it doesn't work out between Paige and I, what then? I'll probably take some of your better advice, but do what I feel is right.

You know why?

Because if I have to use your methods to find a girl, they aren't falling for me, they're falling for a me/you hybrid.
P.E.N.G.U.I.N. Reviewed by P.E.N.G.U.I.N. on . I need advice, for once. Okay, here the Penguin is, asking for relationship advice. I have two women whom I love very deeply, but I don't know which one to choose, and I'm really stuck. Paige, who cares for me and hates even to see me hurt in any way, and who has so much in common with me it's insane, yet is going out with my best friend. Amy, who doesn't think the way I do, but cares for me, and even though we have massive fights occasionally, some invisible tie brought us together even though we met Rating: 5