Well.

For starters men dont choose women. They do the choosing always. The relationship is always on a womans turf. They say when its over 90% of the time. You cannot possess a woman either. She will do what she wants, when she wants to do it.

She does the choosing in the beginning by flirting, you approach, stop, backup and then she chases. Its a rythym. Dont use your intellect to outsmart mother nature.


It sounds like Paige put you in the "friends" catagory because she, "doest want to see you hurt in any way" and she is, "going out with your best friend".

Learn to bottom line her actions. To me, you are saying which one should I choose? when Im hearing, "friends" by her, end of story.

Women will not flat out tell you "no" the majority of the time, and will say it in a different way, (womanese) if they are not interested, it sounds like she is saying, "friends" i.e. not lovers by saying "doesnt want to hurt you". So by the sounds of it she already said no and I dont see how the choice is yours?

Could have been any number of reasons she lost interest, but mainly like I always say
Confidence, Challenge and self-control. Did you fail to do something in this area?
The vast majority of the times its one of these things.


Amy wouldnt happen to be mad at you for possibly making comparisons or anything like that or talking about this other girl maybe? Do you talk about Paige AT ALL to her?
Maybe Amy is disrespected that you might be making comparisons. There should be no talk at all about the other girl or making comparisons. Period.

Fighting occasionally, usually is also spiritually related. Sometimes neccessary to grow individually or as a couple. Could be a past hurt that one feels when triggered by something such as a fear in something you do or she does to you????

Just know that when you see anger it means: Hurt, Fear or Frustration.
One or a combination of the three. So the next time she is angry, if she is initiates it look for what is beneath the anger to solve the problem. Using validating words like "I understand", (when you really do) is important after being a reflective listener. When she is done talking ask her if there is anything else bothering her. Continue to listen. this is the best way to diffuse a woman who is upset.

But if you dont want to loose Amy you need to start doing the right things to keep her attracted to you.

Id also be careful when you use the word "love". Saying you love two women very deeply doesnt make sense to me.
Your reacting to something else.

use that word very lightly in your relationship so you are an emotional challenge, which is what women want.

You cannot project "your love" into a woman and expect it to be returned, or gain acceptance, it doesnt work that way. Its HER interest level in YOU not the other way around.

Remember the three C's. Confidence, Challenge and Control (of yourself not her). Tattoo those words on your bicep.


Peace


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