just from what I read, it sounded like you didnt have nearly the problems with Paige. I would probably not want to even worry about fighting a lot in a relationship; you guys should be past that point to some degree. I think its kinda tough for anyone else to give advice on what you know only you can do. Imagine what your life would be like without one and then the other, and see which one you feel stronger about. I dunno, hope this helps, and good luck. :stoned: