I need advice, for once.

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

We're raised to express ourselves through writing better.

Everything in our education is impersonal, we are told to express our thoughts via pen and paper.

It's only natural that through IMing and online blogging (which is what you could categorize this site as) we can express ourselves more easily.

Why do you think people have to write speeches, and don't just go up with a list of things to talk about?

Because it's easier to write your feelings than come up with them on the spot.

It's what society produces.

It's what society has produced since the birth of mass education (or is it mass hypnotism?).

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Just one problem with communicating in text.

You say, "It means more to say it face to face", I say It means everything to say it face to face. Just dont say the wrong things or project the wrong things.

Your giving up something very valuable and that is to communicate on her DIFFERENT levels and that is done face to face. This is what every woman is looking for. Men communicate on one level, (directly). While women can communicate on up to 4, including directly and most often indirectly. You can never see that looking at text see what Im saying.

Your throwing Confidence, sexual value, suggestion, etc, etc. out the window, the most powerful things you have to offer by avoiding face to face interactions.

Writing your feelings is spilling your guts so to speak. Dont. Play your cards close to your chest. Be honest but open up very, very slowly. Twice as slow as she.
No conformations about where she stands with you. Spilling ones guts,(telling her your feelings), for acceptance is the wrong approach and worst thing you can do.

Be emotionally challenging.

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Just one problem with communicating in text.

You say, "It means more to say it face to face", I say It means everything to say it face to face. Just dont say the wrong things or project the wrong things.

Your giving up something very valuable and that is to communicate on her DIFFERENT levels and that is done face to face. This is what every woman is looking for. Men communicate on one level, (directly). While women can communicate on up to 4, including directly and most often indirectly. You can never see that looking at text see what Im saying.

Your throwing Confidence, sexual value, suggestion, etc, etc. out the window, the most powerful things you have to offer by avoiding face to face interactions.

Writing your feelings is spilling your guts so to speak. Dont. Play your cards close to your chest. Be honest but open up very, very slowly. Twice as slow as she.
No conformations about where she stands with you. Spilling ones guts,(telling her your feelings), for acceptance is the wrong approach and worst thing you can do.

Be emotionally challenging.

SHUT UP.

Okay?

Have you ever thought that there are exceptions to your oh-so confidently given advice?

There are.

Being an emotional challenge and all that are great, but secrecy is a terrible practice.

Hiding one's emotions to make their lover more interested is BULL SHIT!

Stop spouting your advice.

Accept that, just maybe, there are exceptions.

And, since Paige is interested enough to say it could happen, just that she's interested in having fun and not missing out on the teen years, I think you're wrong here.

I like your advice, but don't adhere to it if it's not working in a certain case.

Besides, say it doesn't work out between Paige and I, what then? I'll probably take some of your better advice, but do what I feel is right.

You know why?

Because if I have to use your methods to find a girl, they aren't falling for me, they're falling for a me/you hybrid.

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Your right. Just be yourself......................... Later.

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Your right. Just be yourself......................... Later.

Your best advice yet :thumbsup:

[GratefulDead4ever]

sorry for me being dumb but did paige break your friends heart or something

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

He broke up with her, but the details are hush hush, unless Paige wants me to disclose them. I don't want to start unnecessary gossip about it.

[Paige]

haha

his friend

cameron

broke my heart

not the other way around

and jake

yeah we might be together sometime

but i liek cam

ALOT

and have

FOREVER

and i want to be with him right now

but he cares SOOOO much about your feelings

as do i

but

yeah

so he is slowly braking my heart


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[Paige]

o and i am..

way depressed and angry right now

and/


my emotions are running on high

rigth now

so

sorry if it all seems sudden and

kinda rude

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

o and i am..

way depressed and angry right now

and/


my emotions are running on high

rigth now

so

sorry if it all seems sudden and

kinda rude

It didn't seem rude...

I know you like him, but y'know, he loves Marlie and he's just barely starting to get over her, and there's no way I can, or even he can, feel totally comfortable with you and him going out because it's just...weird...

Whatever, though, do what you will, as long as you come back to me safe <3