ok, you are all so right. She does not know about my grow, and it is well disguised in my basement.I can report her anonymously, but I am afraid she will know it is me, sometimes we meet on the front porch and she gets so angry and agressive, and the kid stands there with his hands outstretched, crying to me , but not any more, coz I have never saved him, and he is still being hurt. But why would someone tell their neighbour that they smacked their kid, its like she is torturing me