Quote Originally Posted by kiki
so, this might be more of a question for the girls, but i'm interested to see what the guys have to say about it too. this is my situation: i complain a lot of the time that i want to have some guy that i can hook up with, hang out with, etc (but i don't want the label of bf/gf). yet every time a guy shows interest in me, i find some reason to reject him... and i don't even think i'm that picky! i think in general i don't let people get close to me and i push them away. i don't know why i'm doing this, and i've been trying to figure it out. i guess part of me thinks it's "easier" not to have to deal with the drama. has anyone else been stuck in a rut like this before? i wasn't sure where to post this, and i understand if it gets moved to the sexuality forum.
Bah..screw the bitter guy..
Yeah..when you are ready to allow a relationship to be what you say you want it to be..then you will have what you say you want...
I dunno why you push people away..you are the only person that knows that...
It may be your age (I am guessing you are under 30) or past experiences..but I can tell you that it'll all be "ok" once you answer your own questions...
Be happy, Sunshine..it'll all be ok in the end..
Johnny
Johnny Hempseed Reviewed by Johnny Hempseed on . love crisis! so, this might be more of a question for the girls, but i'm interested to see what the guys have to say about it too. this is my situation: i complain a lot of the time that i want to have some guy that i can hook up with, hang out with, etc (but i don't want the label of bf/gf). yet every time a guy shows interest in me, i find some reason to reject him... and i don't even think i'm that picky! i think in general i don't let people get close to me and i push them away. i don't know why Rating: 5