Quote Originally Posted by kiki
so, this might be more of a question for the girls, but i'm interested to see what the guys have to say about it too. this is my situation: i complain a lot of the time that i want to have some guy that i can hook up with, hang out with, etc (but i don't want the label of bf/gf). yet every time a guy shows interest in me, i find some reason to reject him... and i don't even think i'm that picky! i think in general i don't let people get close to me and i push them away. i don't know why i'm doing this, and i've been trying to figure it out. i guess part of me thinks it's "easier" not to have to deal with the drama. has anyone else been stuck in a rut like this before? i wasn't sure where to post this, and i understand if it gets moved to the sexuality forum.
Bah..screw the bitter guy..
Yeah..when you are ready to allow a relationship to be what you say you want it to be..then you will have what you say you want...
I dunno why you push people away..you are the only person that knows that...
It may be your age (I am guessing you are under 30) or past experiences..but I can tell you that it'll all be "ok" once you answer your own questions...
Be happy, Sunshine..it'll all be ok in the end..
Johnny