i just went through that with the guy i was with before my current boyfriend. at the time i just got out of a 10 month relationship and wasn't really looking to be with anyone (going through the slut/player phase, as my cousin and her friend put it). i dunno, he got mad when i hooked up with another guy, long story short, i wanted benefits without the title. just couldn't find anyone i wanted to be with...until i found my boyfriend. don't worry, that guy (or guys) you'll click with will come rollin in.