Masterbating usually beats having sex with someone REAL boring, unless your really drunk. But sex is a big deal because for someone reason humans have made it such a big deal. But now it's just the way it is. In some more conservative socities, sex is like a fucking hurrican destroying your house. Not like they don't think or have sex, it's just not a open subject. Some people on this planet would kill a woman, and more rarely men, if they have sex before marriage. Strange!