well i quite often find myself in situations where i'm being talked down on for the bad things i do (weed for example) yet this person has some of their own problems (alcoholism for example) everytime they say something negative about what i do, i just compare/paraphrase it to what they do. since i don't honestly feel what i do is wrong, and don't feel i have an addiction, i don't really get mad, on the other hand, deep down they know they have a problem, and nothing seems to make a person who knows they have a problem madder then having it rubbed in their face, usually it ends up with me and that person in a drown out argument (more of him insulting me when i'm only pointing out facts i.e. me: alcohol destorys lives everyday, the first part of fixing a problem is admitting you have one them: fuck you, you little bitch!) but atleast i don't have to put up with the even more annoying constant complaining based on mis-information.