Hey all, dunno whether this is the right forum or not to be posting this in, or whether i should bother posting it at all but here go's..
so there's this girl at my workplace (i work part-time) who has mostly the same shifts as me. We met and started hanging out at work around about last summer. We really hit it off for the first few weeks that we knew each other, but things kind of cooled down for a bit. Then about october time she was smitten with me lol. She'd always be around me at work. Pinching my ass and just general flirty things like that. Then one night when she was very drunk she sent me a text message saying that she loved me and wanted to have sex with me. The first time we spoke after that, she was embarassed but i just said stuff along the lines of 'i know you were drunk and didn't mean it'. But i never asked her whether she did actually mean it or not! i know im an idiot. I wasn't really interested in starting a relationship then for reasons i won't get into so i guess thats why i didn't really give her the chance to admit she felt like that. After that i kinda backed off a bit at work and whenever she'd be hanging around with me i'd be quite distant and wasn't really particularly friendly at all (another stupid move). So fast forward to recently, and my feelings for her have been growing, quite a lot! But she's told me about this other guy who she likes but he has a girlfriend and he's not prepared to leave her. I don't know how far they've gone, she said she hadnt slept with him though, not that it's any of my business anyway i know. I sure pick my times don't I? :thumbsup: Anyway, i was just wondering if anyone had been in a similar situation or if anyone had any opinions on whether i should tell her how i feel, just be a friend etc.. I know it probably sounds like i only want her cus someone else has her but that's not the case. Just really bad timing! Well if you've read this far well done and thanks :P . Sorry if you were expecting any juicey details or anything there's not really anything to tell hehe. There may be soon hopefully, depends how things work out, and maybe depends on the advice i get from fellow board members hehe. Thanks
Jibboom Reviewed by Jibboom on . Do I have a chance? Hey all, dunno whether this is the right forum or not to be posting this in, or whether i should bother posting it at all but here go's.. so there's this girl at my workplace (i work part-time) who has mostly the same shifts as me. We met and started hanging out at work around about last summer. We really hit it off for the first few weeks that we knew each other, but things kind of cooled down for a bit. Then about october time she was smitten with me lol. She'd always be around me at work. Rating: 5