Quote Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes
i see what ya mean, i mean the last thing i wanna do is scare her off but i can't help the way i feel, it's not like i can just simply switch off to how i feel... i just don't know what i should do or say that would help.

*Sigh* Why can't life be simple for a change??
yeah it is rough, i think a lot of people have been in that situation. as hard as it might be, i think you should just keep chatting with her and enjoying yourselves, and maybe add a couple things into the conversation like "oh there's an awesome zoo around here (or whatever she likes) you would love it!" or just make vague statements about the future like "you and i should go to a concert some day" and see how she responds to that. if she seems freaked out then just ease off a bit, but she might be excited that you're bringing it up.